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A Facebook user narrates how his rich neighbor who promised to take him to where he would make money suddenly ran m*d after selling everything in his house.
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Ekwutos BlogHe wrote on Facebook; This will sound unbelievable but it is true. I had a “rich” neighbour who nicknamed himself “Commissioner”. He built this duplex within six months, bought six expensive cars within eight months. One of the exotic cars he drove, in fact the last one he bought was 46 million Naira as at 2015.
He was my neighbour, we shared a common fence. Hence, we could interact freely. Once he asked me how much was my salary, I told him 50k by then, he was so disappointed, saying he thought I earned up to 600k. He promised to take me to where I will make money. I smiled, and tactically applied breaks on our the speed of our relationship. He told me I am too brilliant to be a poor man. I told him I was not poor but rich. Apart from bearing “rich” as a name, I told him I was rich in contentment.
He flaunted wealth and affluence but I told him in any case, it is the ambition of everyone to be rich, especially where your hand could not reach. It never mattered to me that he was a younger person to me, his fleeting wealth never caught my attention.
I was still in my supposed poverty when I started hearing stories, and the stories are still there till today. First, his wife left him, and the two children they had, he does not know where they are today.
When I was transferred to Bayelsa State, I was called one evening to come to the traffic light at Ibom Specialist Hospital in Uyo, that my neighbour was running mad. I told the people that even if I were I were a psychiatrist, my “colleagues” are also there in Uyo. Why would I be drafted from Yenagoa to come and pick a patient.
Another time I was in Uyo, and it happened again, and I went to see it with my eyes, and I wept. I saw him in a church where they took him for deliverance.
Since then, life has never been the same again for him. I used to hear about grass to grace but my neighbour’s is grace to grace. If at all that was grace.
The man who owned sleek poche cars could not afford to pay a tricycle to move from one location to another. He trekked freely but out of shame was nocturnal in his movements. He sold most of the cars, while others were confiscated for alleged debt.
The house he built, he sold everything in it, and left it a carcass. He sold his water tanks, the tank stands, water pump, electric wires, bulbs, electric pole, DStv, chairs, and everything you could think of in a house or compound.
The house was just remaining the walls and the roof, and he lived there till he was sent away by hunger and trauma.
Today, to my greatest chagrin, the court came to auction the house with a mini court session in front of my neighbour’s compound, sorry my former neighbour. The house which was the only thing remaining from that intimidating wealth has gone today, and my neighbour is free from the troubles of this world. As a journalist, I asked the officials questions. They told me he sold somebody’s landed property and diverted her money. Since he could not refund, the lady went to court, and the court sold the house after one week’s notice.
I now have a new neighbour. I have also learnt a lesson about life. Even when his name is patience, he never had it. He cruised on a wrong lane, and I think he has crashed.
I feel for him but since the house will soon be occupied by people, at least, snakes will reduce around this area. Their habit will be invaded. My former neighbour, is now a confirmed former rich man. He has crashed landed from the pinnacle of stupendous wealth (considering his age) to the abyss of shameful poverty. In less than eight years, he has seen the extremes of wealth and lack.
We should all be patient in life, and get wealthy at God’s appointed time!
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What happened to Britain’s Ukrainians? Refugees tell their stories
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Ekwutos BlogThree years after moving from her native Kharkiv to forge a new path in the Ukrainian capital of Kyiv, Yana Smaglo was doing nicely.
A gifted businesswoman with an insatiable work ethic, she had her own fashion and beauty operation, a nice apartment and an office in the city centre. Life was good.
‘It was settled, nice, a comfortable life,’ says Yana, who is now 32. ‘I was very happy.’
On 24 February 2022, shortly after 5am, everything changed. Yana awoke to the sound of explosions; the long foreshadowed war with Vladimir Putin‘s Russia had begun.
She hurriedly called her friends to waken them. One planned to drive west, towards the border with Poland, and invited her to come along.
In an instant, Yana’s survival instinct kicked in. She grabbed a hat, stuffed a few belongings into a small rucksack – documents, cash, a laptop – and rushed from her home.
In the most literal sense, she was closing the door on life as she knew it.
‘When I left my apartment I thought that, probably, I would never see it again,’ says Yana, before pausing to add ruefully: ‘I also lost the business.
‘But at that moment, you’re so shocked and scared, you think only about saving yourself. I understood that to save myself physically, I didn’t need anything.’
Yana is nonetheless a born entrepreneur and, even in extremis, her natural enterprise did not desert her. Snatching a few handbags, she stuffed them in her backpack, realising she could sell them if she needed ‘quick money’.
That resourcefulness would serve her well once she had made her way across Poland and Germany to Strasbourg, where, after a short wait, she was granted a UK visa.
Almost 6.2 million Ukrainian refugees have fled across Europe since the Russian invasion began, with the UK among a cluster of major host countries that includes Germany, Poland and the Czech Republic.
Those who sought sanctuary in Britain were able to take advantage of government initiatives enabling Ukrainians already in the country to extend their visas, and for family members to join them.
There was also a sponsorship programme, Homes for Ukraine, under which UK householders received a monthly payment of £350 – rising to £500 after the first year – in return for hosting refugees.
Statistically speaking, these various schemes were a notable success. Research conducted by the University of Oxford’s Migration Observatory suggests the number of Ukrainians living in the UK has quadrupled since the conflict began, rising from 41,000 in 2021 to roughly 160,000 by this summer.
In February, the government announced that Ukrainians initially granted three years to remain in the UK would be able to apply for an 18-month visa extension, ensuring Britain remained ‘a safe haven for those fleeing the conflict’.
But for many of the roughly 212,000 people who have arrived under the schemes (some of whom have since returned to Ukraine or moved on elsewhere), resettling in the UK has been a case of out of the frying pan and into the fire.
James Baird, a farmer from West Sussex who has hosted 23 people under the Homes for Ukraine scheme, says the knowledge that there is a potential end date to their residency makes it difficult for refugees to put down roots.
‘There is no new life, because they’re in a space of adjusting to being in limbo,’ says Baird. ‘They can’t get on with their lives here and they can’t get on with life at home, so that’s brought about a tremendous number of issues.’
Not least among those is the psychological toll, with anxiety about the future compounding the impact of displacement, the trauma of experiencing the war at first hand, and concern about loved ones still in Ukraine.
‘Refugees abroad face not only material challenges but also profound psychological difficulties that impact their ability to rebuild their lives,’ UN Global Compact Ukraine, which provides free mental health support to people affected by the war, said in a statement.
‘The struggles faced by displaced persons and refugees often remain invisible to society, but have a devastating impact on their lives.’
That impact includes myriad practical challenges, ranging from the language barrier and cultural differences to finding jobs, securing school places and registering for bank accounts, GPs and dentists.
‘When somebody arrives, you’ve got to build this temporary life for them,’ says Baird. ‘I found myself doing things I’ve never done before, like going to the job centre and helping people get bus passes and national insurance numbers.’
Baird has also offered less conventional forms of assistance.
One of the first Ukrainians he hosted was Alina Bulakh, a woman in her early 30s from Kharkiv who had previously helped to manage the Ukrainian Olympic team. Though she quickly found work in a pub in nearby Arundel, it was a far cry from her previous visit to the UK for the 2012 London Olympics.
‘It was a wonderful and interesting time, we worked and equipped the Olympians for the Summer Olympics in London 2012 and the Winter Olympics in Sochi 2014,’ says Alina.
She found it difficult to adjust to her altered circumstances, so when she informed Baird that she wanted to join a dating app, he helped her to navigate the sign-up process.
When she subsequently mentioned wanting to visit Edinburgh, he sensed a further opportunity to lift her spirits, using some of the money he received as a host to cover her travel arrangements.
‘What I didn’t realise was that she had messaged a guy on Tinder,’ Baird recalls. ‘She met up with him in Edinburgh, and love blossomed. She’s now living with him; he’s a divorcee with a couple of kids, and she’s like a mother to those children, so it was really wonderful.’
Not everyone is so fortunate.
Natalia, a 27-year-old from Donetsk, fled to the UK after the outbreak of war but was afflicted by crippling fear and anxiety. She has since returned home – albeit to a different part of the country – where she has received support from UN Global Compact Ukraine’s mental health platform, helping her to deal with her traumatic experiences.
Natalia, who says she went went back to Ukraine to pursue her business interests and regain a sense of normalcy, laid bare the inner turmoil of life as a refugee.
‘Fear was constant,’ she said. ‘It consumes your entire body, leaving you restless day and night. When survival becomes your only goal, everything else loses meaning – your job, your plans, even your sense of self.
‘You leave everything you’ve known and move to another country. There, you take on any job you can find, even if you were a specialist before. And again, you feel torn apart: you’re living in safety, but part of your soul remains at home, where everything is destroyed.
‘When you return, you have to start all over again, but it’s even harder, because you carry the pain of your past with you.’
The psychological burden is almost invariably compounded by practical obstacles. Baird says the people he has hosted have all been ‘fiercely independent’, but he has seen firsthand how self-reliance can be complicated by factors beyond their control.
‘Even when they enter the mainstream economy, they are often professional people who are washing dishes in pubs and picking cabbages around the outskirts of Chichester, he says. ‘So they’re on a very low wage, but very well educated.
‘It’s really difficult, because the landlord-tenant system here requires personal guarantees that you have some sort of cash security,’ he says. ‘I’ve stepped in as guarantor quite a few times, but then they’ve got to find work – and they have to have enough work to pay the rent and pay all the bills.’
Even that may not be enough, as Yana Smaglo can attest.
Within two days of arriving at Manchester Airport, from where she travelled to west Yorkshire to stay with friends, Smaglo was seeking employment.
When the initial signs were unpromising, she changed tack, drawing on her industry experience to establish Nenya Fashion, a Leeds-based company that sells a distinctive range of Ukrainian lines.
Two years on, the results speak for themselves: the business has five brands in its portfolio, more than 120 wholesale partners, and had a turnover of over £120,000 last year, says Smaglo.
Despite turning a profit, however, she has found it difficult to find alternative accommodation following the recent expiry of a one-year tenancy agreement, with landlords wary of letting to a self-employed refugee.
‘It’s quite stressful,’ says Smaglo, who once again finds herself living with friends. ‘I rented my previous accommodation for one year and I was never late with my payments.
‘I’m earning the money to pay for a room but, just because I’m a refugee and people don’t trust that a refugee can set up a business and afford to pay rent, I’m really struggling to find a place to live.’
It is the latest in a series of head-spinning events for the entrepreneur, who initially found it hard to reconcile her past and present.
‘It wasn’t easy, it was hard to understand,’ she says. ‘For example, when I rented accommodation, I wondered why I should buy something that I already have at home.
‘It’s hard to explain to yourself that, no, you don’t have anything any more, you need to buy, you need to work hard. It’s hard emotionally.
‘You can’t put all these thoughts together in your head. You’re shocked, because you worked all your life so hard, and for so long, and some people just came and took it from you in one day.
‘Physically you’ve been saved, but mentally you’re trying to understand what’s happening. I had a lot of panic attacks when I arrived here.
‘You’re in a new country, with a new language, and you start your life from zero. Your mental health starts to fray.’
Her success in coming to terms with the sea change in her circumstances was underpinned by several factors. She had the drive and business nous to help herself. She speaks good English, having learned the language in school from the age of six (although she says that coming to the UK made her feel she didn’t understand English at all).
Like so many successful entrepreneurs, she also had a little help along the way, with friends, local businesses and even the local media helping her to make the contacts she needed to get her company off the ground.
‘Local people really helped me as I was trying to grow the business,’ says Smaglo, who runs the concern with the support of two people who help pro bono with their knowledge and connections.
‘From my side, I’m here, I’m paying taxes here, I have my business here, I feel myself as a part of society. I don’t have any benefits, and I don’t want them; I’m living here now, and I want to feel the country as the rest of the British people.’
The long-term goal now is to grow the company to the point where she can not only help businesses in her homeland survive, but also employ Ukrainian refugees in the UK.
‘A lot of Ukrainians are refugees now, but it doesn’t matter where we are, we still have to help our country to survive and go through this war,’ says Yana. ‘It won’t be forever, but as long as it’s going on we need to help, to show ourselves that we are still Ukrainians.
‘It doesn’t matter where we live, we are all helping: some people are going to the frontline economically, and they should do everything they can so that less people die on the frontline.’
Earlier this year, President Volodymyr Zelensky remarked that ‘the unity of Ukrainians spans both hemispheres of the Earth’, the exodus from the country having created a global community that ‘have not forgotten their roots and do not let the world forget about Ukraine’.
Yana is part of that community – and like so many, she is intent on doing her bit.
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Horrific moment Azerbaijan airlines plane cr@shes with 72 on board on Christmas Day
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This is the horrific moment a passenger plane with 72 people on board hit the ground in a fireball in a Christmas Day crash landing in Kazakhstan.
The Azerbaijan Airlines passenger aircraft crashed near Kazakhstan’s Aktau Airport close to the Caspian Sea on Wednesday morning, December 25, Kazakh authorities said, with up to 40 people feared de@d.
The aircraft was flying from Baku in Azerbaijan to Grozny in Russia, the Transport Ministry said in a post to its official Telegram channel. It was rerouted to Aktau in Kazakhstan due to fog in Grozny, Russian news agencies reported.
Footage of the crash showed the plane bursting into flames as it hit the ground and thick black smoke then rising.
Kazakhstan’s Ministry of Emergency Situations said that the plane was carrying 69 people — 64 passengers and five crew members.
The ministry said 29 people survived the crash, with many hospitalized.
Two children were among those hospitalized, the ministry said in a post to its Telegram channel.
Kazakhstan’s deputy health minister told ABC News that some of those taken to hospital are in critical condition.
Kazakh authorities have initiated an investigation into the crash, focusing on reported bird strike, mechanical failure and the decision to reroute the flight due to adverse weather conditions, Kazakh aviation authorities told ABC News.
Among the passengers were 37 Azerbaijani citizens, six from Kazakhstan, three from Kyrgyzstan, and 16 from Russia, the Transport Ministry said in a statement, citing “preliminary data.”
Azerbaijan Airlines said in a post to X that the aircraft “made an emergency landing” around 2 miles from Aktau. The aircraft was an Embraer 190 model with flight number J2-8243, it said.
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