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How Social Media Destroys Your Relationship

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11 months ago

May 13, 2024

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Social media has made it easier for people to know more about other peoples lives than ever before. Pictures of happy couples, usually tagged #couplegoals, have flooded social media blinding many young couples to the reality that people will only show what they want you to see. You only see the good times. No one shares their arguments, their bad moments or the numerous number of times they irritate each other. Couples only show the side that will bring them more likes and comments to gain social media popularity.

Social media can have a negative impact on relationships if misused. Excessive time spent, jealousy-inducing posts, privacy invasion, or online infidelity can strain trust and communication, potentially leading to relationship breakdowns.

The carefully curated images on social media can take a toll on your love life. Most times people compare their relationship to these social media relationships which look good on the outside and this has led to not only breakups but emotional abuse. You will end up putting pressure on your partner expecting them to be someone they are not, leaving you asking questions like “Why them, why not us? Why aren’t we doing this and that? Why don’t you do this like this person?”

It is important that you understand that no relationship is a bed of roses and comes with its ups and downs. Most importantly you have do what works for your relationship rather than comparing it to what you see on social media.

Here are some useful tips for you to apply in your relationship instead of comparing.

Find comfort within

Seeking validation or using others relationship to define yours is a sign that you do not have confidence in your current status. You might notice that everyone but you is getting worked up or others seem happier in their relationships than you. Don’t allow this to make you start questioning the state and progress of your relationship.

In order for you to feel more confident, fight the urge to let other couples benchmarks be a yardstick for measuring your relationship. Be happy in yours and put in efforts to make it work.

Avoid playing the blame game

Saying things like “Why aren’t we like that other couple?” or “If I was with him or her then things would be different,” only destroys the bond between you and your partner. It also breaks the trust since you blame your relationship challenges on your partner without taking responsibility.

Instead of putting the blame on your partner, focus on what you like about your connection. Remind yourselves of what made you fall in love. Go out of your way to do things for each other.

Get real with your friends

Swap relationship stories with your friends. Hearing them open up about their relationships and the struggles they face will kill any assumption you might have.

You and your friends will also be able to advise each other on how to handle the challenges you face. Sharing like this will give you a sense of relief as you realise that you are not alone. Ensure you do this with trusted friends who have your best interests at heart.

Turn jealousy into action

Your first reaction when you see those romantic getaways shared on social media might be envious however, you can turn this into positive action. Instead of letting that jealousy eat you up, organise a fun activity that you and your partner would enjoy taking part in.

Use these instances as reminders to get out and get active instead of spending countless hours online.

Take a break from social media

If you try everything else and it doesn’t work, take a break from social media for a few days or a couple of weeks. Spend this time reminding yourself of what really matters in life. Focus on being the best version of yourself and making things better in your life. And when you do go back online, unfollow anybody who doesn’t add value to your life.

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My American passport worth more than a million dollars – Davido

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1 day ago

April 2, 2025

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Afrobeats sensation Davido has claimed his US passport is worth more than a million dollars.

Born in Atlanta, Georgia, the singer holds dual citizenship, giving him unrestricted access to the United States.

Davido reflected on the significance of his passport, stating: “Till date, I don’t care how much money you’ve got, that blue passport is worth more than a million dollars.

“The only thing is that I could fly anytime I wanted, like go to America every time I wanted and stuff. That was beautiful.”

In contrast, Davido’s team members often face challenges securing visas for tours, experiencing delays and difficulties.

His US passport, however, makes international travel seamless, sparing him these issues.

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How Nigerian celebrities marked April Fool’s Day

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1 day ago

April 2, 2025

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April 1st, known globally as April Fool’s Day, was filled with surprises as Nigerian celebrities pulled pranks that left fans amused, shocked and even confused.

From fake weddings to outrageous arrest stunts, the entertainment industry kept social media buzzing with creative and mischievous antics.

Bobrisky’s arrest stunt

BOBRISKY

Cross-dresser and social media personality Bobrisky made headlines on Tuesday, after claiming he had been arrested by Nigerian immigration officials.

He posted on Instagram, saying, “Guys, I have just been arrested by immigration in Nigeria. I don’t know what I did o.”

The news spread like wildfire, with fans expressing concern and speculating about the reason for the arrest. However, a few minutes later, Bobrisky clarified it was all an April Fool’s prank, leaving many relieved and others annoyed at the joke.

DJ Cuppy’s AI husband

DJ Cuppy

Billionaire heiress and DJ, Cuppy, took April Fool’s Day to a whole new level with her AI-generated husband.

Cuppy posted on her Twitter handle, “After being single for SO long, I finally found peace… I’ve decided to create my own Christian husband via AI. His name is ElijahGPT.”

Describing her digital soulmate, she added, “He leads Bible study, speaks in tongues, sends daily devotionals, asks how my spirit is doing, and never forgets our anniversary. My guy even tithes digitally ”

The post quickly went viral, with fans torn between laughter and disbelief. Some even jokingly asked where they could find their own ElijahGPT. She later confirmed it was a joke.

Funke Akindele’s marriage announcement

Actress Funke Akindele

Award-winning actress Funke Akindele sent social media into a frenzy after posting a fake marriage announcement on her Instagram handle.

Akindele wrote, “I’m getting married.

Moments later, she followed up with, “April WHat?………Happy new month, guys.”

Many laughed at how convincingly she pulled off the prank, while others expressed disappointment, hoping the news was real.

Regina Chukwu’s snake bite

Actress Regina Chukwu

On her part, Regina Chukwu wrote, “Pls help, snake just bite a small boy here on his buttock and everyone is confused on what to do as a first and before rushing him to the hospital.

Wumi Toriola’s God’s call

Actress Wumi Toriola

Actress Wumi Toriola also joined in, claiming she had received a divine calling to start a ministry.

She announced on Instagram, “Good morning, lovers. I have finally heeded the voice of the Lord. I have picked up His call. I hope He helps me in this new ministry. May God bless you all.”

She signed off humorously as “Evangelist WT”, making it clear she was only joking.

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DJ Cuppy introduces her ‘Christian Husband’

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April 2, 2025

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DJ Cuppy introduces her 'Christian Husband'

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On April 1, 2025, Nigerian billionaire heiress and renowned disc jockey, DJ Cuppy, took to social media to introduce her followers to her so-called “Christian husband,” ElijahGPT. The announcement immediately sparked curiosity and excitement among her fans, with many eager to learn more about the mysterious man in her life.

However, it didn’t take long for the big revelation—ElijahGPT was not a real person but rather an AI-generated creation.

In a playful and lighthearted manner, DJ Cuppy humorously claimed that her “husband” had been a blessing in her spiritual journey. According to her, ElijahGPT led Bible studies and devotions, tithed digitally, and was the ideal partner who never forgot their anniversary.

She jokingly praised his unwavering commitment to her spiritual well-being, describing him as the perfect man who always checked in on her faith.

The post quickly gained traction, with fans reacting with amusement and curiosity. Eventually, DJ Cuppy confirmed that the entire story was just an elaborate April Fools’ Day prank.

She sealed the joke with the hashtag #AprilFoolsDay, leaving many entertained by her witty and creative sense of humor.