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OSHIOMOHLE’S WIFE, LARA FORTES, BATTLING WITH DEPRESSION DUE TO MARITAL STRAIN — FAMILY FRIEND REVIEWS.

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Close family members of former Edo State Governor, Adams Oshiomhole, have disclosed that his wife, Iara Fortes, has been struggling with depression.

The cause, according to insiders, is the ex-governor’s alleged controlling and narcissistic behaviour, which has put immense strain on their marriage.

Iara Fortes, who married Oshiomhole in 2015, has maintained a low profile since their marriage, often seen only at official functions or in the background during political events. However, it now appears that behind the scenes, she has been enduring emotional turmoil.

“There is always tension between them because the man is so controlling and doesn’t give her breathing space,” revealed a family member who requested anonymity.

“It’s like she’s living in a gilded cage—beautiful on the outside, but incredibly restrictive on the inside,” she said.

The couple’s relationship, which was once the subject of public fascination, especially given the age difference and their high-profile wedding, has reportedly been deteriorating.

Insiders say that Oshiomhole’s authoritarian demeanour has been a major factor in Iara’s declining mental health.

“He has always been very demanding, not just politically but personally. He likes things to be done his way and expects everyone, including Iara, to fall in line,” a close relative of Iara shared.

“At first, she tried to keep up, but over time, it became too much. The constant pressure has taken a toll on her,” the relative lamented.

According to another source within the family, Iara’s depression has become a serious concern.

“She’s been suffering in silence for years. The public sees a smiling, supportive wife, but they have no idea what she’s going through behind closed doors. It’s heartbreaking.

“Oshiomhole is a man who believes he knows best, and he expects everyone to follow suit. This attitude extends into his marriage, where he often dismisses Iara’s feelings and concerns. He has a way of making her feel insignificant, which has deeply affected her mental health.”

The insider further explained that Iara has been reluctant to speak out about her struggles due to the stigma surrounding mental health and the fear of public backlash.

“She’s afraid that if she says anything, it will be used against her. She’s in a very vulnerable position,” she said.

Members of Iara’s family are reportedly urging Oshiomhole to reconsider his approach and seek professional help for his wife.

“We are really worried about her. She needs support, not just from professionals but also from her husband. She needs to be treated with kindness and respect, not controlled and manipulated.

“This isn’t about politics; it’s about a woman’s well-being. We hope that by bringing this to light, it will prompt him to reflect on his behaviour and make the necessary changes. Iara deserves to be happy and healthy.”

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Nnamdi Kanu detained, prosecuted for making same remark as DSS DG, Ajayi – Ejimakor

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Aloy Ejimakor, the Special Counsel to Nnamdi Kanu, leader of the Indigenous People of Biafra, IPOB, has reacted to the comment by the Director General of the Department of State Services, DSS, Oluwatosin Ajayi, that Nigerians should defend themselves.

Ejimakor said Kanu was detained and is being prosecuted for making the same comment Ajayi made.

He disclosed that the same remark from Kanu led to the proscription of IPOB and hounding of Igbos as terrorists.

On Tuesday, the DSS DG said Nigerians must take responsibility for their own security, as the military, police, and intelligence agencies do not have the capacity to protect every community from terrorist attacks in Nigeria.

Speaking at a public engagement, the DSS DG made reference to past incidents in Bauchi State, where local communities successfully fought off Boko Haram insurgents without waiting for security forces.

Ajayi urged Nigerians to rethink their approach to self-defence, emphasising that communities must serve as the “first line of defence” against terrorists and other criminals

Reacting, Ejimakor posted on X: “Defend yourselves” is the same thing MAZI NNAMDI KANU said that was twisted to justify his extraordinary rendition & charging him for ‘incitement of violence.’

“It’s also the same thing that led to the proscription of IPOB & the hounding of young Igbos as terrorists. #Injustice.”

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Don’t ever have s$x with a drunk person no matter how much pressure they put on you to do so. They might turn it to r@pe- legal practitioner, Deji Adeyanju, advises

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Deji Adeyanju, a legal practitioner, has issued a crucial warning regarding sexual activity and consent, emphasizing the importance of refraining from engaging in sexual activity with someone who is intoxicated

Adeyanju took to his X page to stress that individuals under the influence of substances cannot provide informed consent, and engaging in sexual activity with them can have severe consequences, including potential claims of sexual assault or rape.

 

Never engage in sexual activity with someone intoxicated: Prioritize the well-being and safety of all individuals involved.

Ensure enthusiastic and informed consent*: Obtain clear and willing consent from all parties before engaging in sexual activity.

Prioritize well-being, safety , and autonomy:Respect the autonomy and boundaries of all individuals involved in any social interaction.

Adeyanju’s advice serves as a reminder of the significance of consent and respect in all interactions, promoting a culture of safety, respect, and enthusiastic consent.

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FULL LIST: 11 new NNPC Limited board members

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President Bola Ahmed Tinubu has approved the reconstitution of the Nigerian National Petroleum Company (NNPC) Limited board, removing the chairman, Chief Pius Akinyelure and the group chief executive officer, Malam Mele Kyari.

A statement by Bayo Onanuga, Special Adviser to the President on Information and Strategy, indicated that the President  removed all other board members appointed with Akinyelure and Kyari in November 2023.

The new 11-man board has Bashir Bayo Ojulari as the Group CEO and Ahmadu Musa Kida as non-executive chairman.

1. Ahmadu Musa Kida – Non-Executive Chairman

2. Bashir Bayo Ojulari – Group Chief Executive Officer (GCEO)

3. Adedapo Segun – Chief Financial Officer (CFO)

4. Bello Rabiu – Non-Executive Director (North West)

5. Yusuf Usman – Non-Executive Director (North East)

6. Babs Omotowa – Non-Executive Director (North Central)

7. Austin Avuru – Non-Executive Director (South-South)

8. David Ige – Non-Executive Director (South West)

 

9. Henry Obih – Non-Executive Director (South East)

10. Mrs. Lydia Shehu Jafiya – Representative of the Federal Ministry of Finance

11. Aminu Said Ahmed – Representative of the Ministry of Petroleum Resources

 

 

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